videos of ms vilar discussing book; interviews; other work. 1000 wds on book and book alone.
love to hear her thoughts on The Modern Age. TMM written EARLY 1970s, right after Women’s “LIB” had started. Lot has changed since this mentality has sunk in for 2 generations. Compare w CCarousel, women only want Alpha Personalities – Under-30 MILLIONAIRES have trouble getting women just bc they’re DORKY. WTF?? What would Vilar say. (“millionaire matchmaker” Real Mendacious TV; but leads into Game Discussion that Male Charisma CAN outweigh Career/Financial Success if guy’s too Spergy) TMM argues women only care about men’s Money & utility & how they can be exploited as workhorse. Def similar to what Barbarossaaaa & Stardusk & John The Other say. I believe it, but there’s OTHER angle MUST be considered: young women sowing wild oats WHILE working on career, no time or desire to be “tied down”, want to have career first, and F-Buddies for the Sex Needs, ruin Youthful Man-Magnet powers jumping from C0ck to c0ck; thing is, these c0cks don’t need to be RICH or RESOURCE-PROVIDING, rather, moreso, phys attractive AND/OR BOLDLY CHARISMATIC.
Would LOVE for Vilar to write sequel re The Modern Woman. original book SPOT ON, but now only 50% appropriate as there’s A New Type of Woman, the kind who sees self almost AS a man, can do anything man can do better, obsessed with WORK and CAREER and ACHIEVEMENT and providing for self and “not needing a man”, when Vilar sez, in 1971, all women are stupid and lazy and will memorize textbooks enough to start a career, but ultimately want a man to work for them and provide so they can be lazy, sit on 455 all day, devote time to TRUE ambition: their SELVES. Vanity, narcissism.
Today, work/career/competing-with-men is PART of that narcissism. Women more attuned to “The Sexuality of Men” than Vilar suggests, she says women have very low libido, use this as position of power to control men, don’t really care about men’s looks or personality so long as they EARN and PROVIDE and ENABLE; all men look pretty much the same, even ugly men vs handsome men. Walter Matthau vs Rock Hudson her examples. Women don’t LOOK at men or appreciate men’s looks, only other women.
I argue this needs to be expanded for Modern. Now Women DO care more about men’s Looks AND men’s personality. Personality is MOST important: will compensate for bad looks and EVEN for no money. Alpha ATTITUDE that matters MOST in Pulling Young Tail. Is Vilar still ALIVE? (Yes.)
Often looked at jacket photo to establish “connection” with author of these powerful words. Something I do with good books. She was about 35 or 36 when book published 1971, orig in German, 1972 English trans. didn’t think so old. Born1935 Argentina, German parents, (WW2 influence? Jewish??) “studied as physician”, went back Germany 1960s study psych and sociology. Marxist Fields of course but her Medical Training redeems her IMHO, enables her to cut thru Marxist Morass. interesting life/woman, & what brings a woman to write such a book just as Feminism was really BEGINNING?& Why didn’t she write more books re Insidious Influence of Feminism INCREASING to this very day? Early death?
born “Katzen.” YEP THOUGHT SO LULZ. But not in the Bad way, if THAT makes any sense hahaha.
“Argentine-German PLAYWRIGHT.” Wrote a novel in 2009. wrote “The Polygamous Sex” after TMM, supposedly more serious and “sober”, less of a “POLEMIC” than TMM, so you knew she was not SATIRE or PARODY or IRONIC. “misogyny” in TMM (eg, “Women are STUPID PIGS!”) is SO Blatant, it’s understandable to question her sincerity – writing like THAT just doesn’t get PUBLISHED if actually SINCERE! “Polygamous Sex” is about how men have The Right to cheat on Women, sounds good to me! WAY OOP, 88$ for paperback!!
Nice page on Kevin Solway’s classic “Misogyny Unlimited” w Vilar’s 1998 preface to re-release of TMM. NICE. Squarely puts her in MRA camp, but doesn’t address more of the game / sex marketplace stuff I mentioned above. But she DOES mention The Sexual Marketplace in original book a BIT. Haven’t even finished haha. 60 pages in. (short book, 180 pages.) just doin notes for 1000 word “review.” Book’s MORE THAN important enough to warrant own post. shoulda read YEARS ago. .01$ on amazon, ok, didn’t realise. ALL MRAs, buy, read, enjoy!
Manboobz’s cheap deflection of vilar as “crazy cat lady”.
PDF of ENTIRE BOOK from Don’t Marry. NICE!
most Youtube stuff in German. But she looks better than on book jacket, where seems to have lazy eye. Nope, not really.
could have been POWERFUL True MRActivist had she wanted, but Ithink woulda been too much for her. Didn’t want to commit to The Lifestyle? Still don’t JUDGE her for it – MRAs ARE Despised & unpopular!
Men’s creativity limited by desire to SUBMIT to Female Approval. Men Want pv$$y and PRAISE from women SO DESPERATELY they WILFULLY give up FREEDOM.
Analyzing her args qua own life. Been obsessed w Young Tail for YEARS – has INTERFERED w my “natural male curiosity” or “Scientific ambition” such that I don’t really HAVE enough that curiosity – entire goal is GETTING YOUNG TAIL, Over and over and over, not as curious in science, politics, systems, The Universe. Well, THAT’s not true. Def care about analyzing POLITICS and EvolPsych and Sociology (nonMarxist haha), although interest has pu$$y COMPONENT bc it ALWAYS deals w WOMEN in one way or other: Feminism, MRA, Game, books like Vilar’s, etc. Always WOMEN INVOLVED. very HARD to truly GO OWN WAY & just FORGET about Pv$$y ALTOGETHER & become Great Scientist/Inventor. (Tesla, Newton) Wish I COULD! Proves Vilar’s Implication that Some Men FEAR True Freedom & WANT to be ENSLAVED!!!
Despite Young Tail OBSESSION, still not sure if JUICE WORTH SQUEEZE. Lifetime Of Hard Thankless “Soul-Destroying” (Vilar uses exact adjective!) Labor is not worth UNLIMITED access to YOUNG Tail, LET ALONE Limited Access to Disloyal, Disgracefully Aging Tail!
better to just sit around lazy unemployed loser – though u don’t get “pleasure” of trash tail, you DO avoid displeasure of throwing yr own life away. The RUB is when this man STILL can’t get Young Tail out of his MIND. Young Tail is the MINDKILLER. I should write THAT book, how to excise THAT obsession from Internal Mind.
Vilar presents SCATHING, SCABROUS, INCENDIARY INDICTMENT of Average Modern Western Woman – and Vilar ain’t seen NOTHIN yet in 1971!
Mild criticism, & perf understandable given 1971: Vilar portrays All Women as Cold, Calculating (but stupid) Frigid monsters who have NO interest in sex & use it ONLY to control man. I’d argue nowadays only 70% true; Avg Modern Western Wimminz prove that Women are JUST AS Cvmcrazy for bold, confident, powerful Alpha Males as We Men are Cvntcrazy for virginal 18-year-old girls. Naturally Avg Beta Males never SEE this Secret World & THINK AMWW are Frigid & controlling; Betas never wear the Ring Of Power to CONTROL women through WOMEN’s Limited-to-Alphas-Only Lust.
MUCH more ethical 2B Alpha Manipulating Women than Women Manipulating Man because: Alphas are ONLY manip YOUNG women for SEX, & for BRIEF period of TIME, while these men continue to live their lives, go own way, enjoy freedom, do meaningful, masculine life’s WORK. WOMEN manip MEN (ie avg beta men) so they can EXPLOIT/STEAL the men’s WORK for a LIFETIME, so women dont have to WORK. See? 9000X worse. QED.