…and that is the better way to be, than the alternative. For Women at least. Doesn’t really help these Niceguys unfortunately.
LONG POST, 6.5 minutes of yer time.
this is part 2 of me complaining like a beta blogger on “Nice Guys Of OK Cupid”, but CERTAINLY getting to some of the deeper issues that Beta-Hating Baby-Murdererz REFUSE to THINK ABOUT.
ADDENDUM TO THE NICE GUY SUBJECT (because “ISSUE” is fagspeak. put that in the list.)
Eradica had a related article that was Jezebel, and I hadn’t been masochistic or Mean enough to read jezebel in a while, so there I went again. This time they hate on nice guys, big surprise. Now I’m not a Nice Guy Except To People Who Deserve It – My Friends and Family, NOT Hamstery Decadent Soul-Poisoning Wimmin.
MY BIG POINT: look at the comments. A big thing there is Accusing the Nice Guys of Deception and Dishonesty and Creeperyness because:
-when the wimmin rejects them and the Niceguys get understandably upset and Derpressed and Gothic and need some Time and Space, then to the wimmin this means “HE WANTED ME ONLY FOR SEX, NOT AS A FRIEND, SO HIS FRIENDLINESS WAS FAKE.”
This is HUGE DAMNING PROOF that Wimmin have completely “internalized” (semi fag word) the Poisonous Decadent AntiVirtue of Wholly Separating Love and Sex, such that they can’t even imagine the Better situation where Love and Sex are intimately connected.
To put it simply, they can’t possibly appreciate that the Niceguys Didn’t Just Want Them For SEX: They were in FULL BLOWN LOVE with THEM, the niceguys wanted MONOGAMOUS LIFETIME MARRIAGE with them, they wanted An Exclusive Monogamous Relationship with Walks in the Park and Meeting the Families and Pillow Talk and Holding Hands and Marriage and Children and 50 year anniversaries. The LAST thing it’s about is “JUST SEX.”
So this is a Dangerous Destructive Lie: That Nice Guys are Liars who Only Want Sex. Nope. Nice Guys Rightly Combine Sex and Love, like people Used To Do in Healthier Times; and they have to Have Space not because They don’t want to be “Friends”, but because they want to be MUCH MORE THAN FRIENDS, and much more than “Friends With Benefits.” They see their Soul Mate who they want to Grow Old With, summarily Rejecting them Quickly and easily and then accusing them of wanting Only Sex. I wouldn’t be happy about that either!
So I’ll stand up for the niceguys here. They don’t want “JUST SEX”. They are in Deep Love that Wimmin just don’t understand, well maybe they did with their First and Only True Love when they just entered puberty and there was That First Special Boy right before they figured The C0ck Carousel was the better alternative to True Love, which is a Dangerous Patriarchal Myth. Not nearly as Dangerous as this Marxist Myth That Niceguys only want Sex, which comes from the narcissistic, Unempath heheh mindset of the Modern Wimmin – The Poisoned, Corrupt, Decadent, Immoral idea that Sex and Love are Cleaved In Twain, and also the cheapening and bad redefinition of love itself.
EMPATH ADVICE FOR WIMMIN: It’s not that hard. The niceguy is as Crazy For You, as YOU are for The Badboy Alpha Nonniceguy (like me, hahaha) who doesn’t respond to your texts after sex and calls YOU crazy and clingy and laffs when you cry after sex and doesn’t let you take his c0k any more when you text him. SERIOUS FEEEEEEEEELINGZ.
just had to point that out. this is why a decent wimmin will not call you a creep for wanting space after she tears the nice guy’s HEART out.
I might have to read JEZEBEL and THE FRISKY MORE OFTEN because they are CHOCK FULL of those Fagspeak words and just totes Fag WRITING. THIS is what’s Wrong With Modern Wimmin. I can only HOPE what these wimmin write – and get paid dearly for!! Writing this CORROSIVE POISON is their CAREEEEEER AND THEY LUVVVV IT!!! – does not reflect the actual opinions/beliefs of Average Everyday Wimmin – although probably 51% of people are sheeple and will believe whatever you tell them, right OR wrong.
(SHE is 9000000 times more SMUG and OBNOXIOUS than **I am, Chr!ssakes!)
Of course, I’m not saying it’s RIGHT or JUST or SMART or REASONABLE for these Niceguys to Fall In Love with these Awful Wimmin, but, wrong wimmin or not, it’s STILL True Luv. Don’t say it’s not just because you let the Meaning Of Love get POUNDED out of you due to you Choosing Spreading.
A large part of it is, Average Men have MUCH FEWER Lifetime Sex Partners than the Average Wimmin of their Age. So the Men are like 15 year old Girls, who fall in LOVE with every Sex Partner, much like the Wimmin did, before they became a huge wh0re, desensitized to promiscuous sex, permanently separating sex and love. That’s “the place” these Niceguys “are coming from.” They do not know what “meaningless sex” is, probably won’t for another 10 years at least, when they start banging desperate cheating cougars.
The world would be a better place if Wimmin were MORE LIKE these Niceguys! It would create a solid Foundation for Families!
The Wimmin think, he was LYING to me, he didn’t WANT to be FRIENDS, he only wanted in to the PANTS PARTY (this is how they talk.) WRONG. He wanted to BOTH be in the Pants Party AND have the type of Intimate Loving Husband Wife “Friendship” that is more than “Friendship” and way more than “Friends With Benefits”…. but Todays Wimminz don’t even know how to CONCEPTUALIZE that any more, and if they try, they think it’s creepy and weird.
once a guy develops enough charisma to rise about & get pvssy on the reg, then rightfully gets sick of mindless meaningless sex with no Human Connection, because this Natural Human Impulse has not been conditioned out of him yet, and says something about it to wimmin, the wimmins response is: WHO CARES SEX IS JUST AS IMPORTANT, DON’T KNOCK SEX! possibly because she is threatened by being FOUND OUT: Yes Virginia, many wimmin ARE good for nothing but sex and they CANNOT be a good Intimate Partner Ever, because they’ve taken too Manny Cox and had Too Much Sex.
It all sums up to the SIMPLE LESSON MOST NORMAL GUYS ALREADY KNOW, and which EVERYBODY knew in GRAMPA’s Generation: THERE ARE SHORT-TERM WIMMIN & THEN THERE ARE LONG-TERM WOMEN. THERE ARE WIMMIN YOU BANG AND WOMEN YOU MARRY/”WIFE”.
Summation / Another Great Way To Look At It:
-The Wimmin accuse the Niceguy of Separating Sex and Luv and get mad at him for it,
– when it’s WIMMIN who are experts at, AND USUALLY ADVOCATE separating Sex & Luv,
– when the nice guy didn’t even DO that! He’s Combining Sex and Love very wholly, very traditionally! Funny that he’s getting accused of THE EXACT OPPOSITE of what he’s doing!
Screeching SWPL Urbane Cosmopolitan Professional Career Coastal Wimmin, not even only feminists, but those poisoned by feminists, take great offense to this common sense, naturally.
Heh. I should not be surprised THE INIMITABLE UNCLE BERN did a vid on this too. YEAH BUDDY!
Women CAN have Too Many Lifetime Sex Partners!
Just Bl0wing a guy Once counts as a Lifetime Sex Partner!
and Girl Writes What has a good video on The General Topic of Niceguys
The Wimminists are Fundamentally Misunderstanding the concept of Unrequited Romantic Feelings. I think this is a new thing, in the past we never HEARD about “Nice Guys” because Wimmin generally had more Empathy, and understood that Nice Guys were In Love with them, and Understood that you can’t be Friends with Someone Whose Love you Rejected, and that it’s not Just About Sex. These were SIMPLE, OBVIOUS TRUTHS, but Todays Wimminz are not learning them.