A bit confused/overwhelmed by the WordPress Dashboard. Fair Warning: this is (prob) not going to be Great Writing. This will prob just be Quick And Dirty. With my last blog I tried to “refine” and “revise” and “proofread” and make the writing “strong” and “compelling” and “terse” but here I don’t plan on that right now, I’m just Rambling off the top of my head. Prob because what I really want to do is a YouTube channel but right now I haven’t figured out exactly how to disguise my voice.
Unlike my previous blog, The Evil Ebon Frigid Appendage Of Doom or something which I will not utter the exact name of, I would like to get back to using the First Person, because I don’t want to kid anybody that these are not My Opinions. I started using Third Person as a legit reasonable way to get away from the Navel Gazing Details That blog was heading towards, but that didn’t stop me from revealing Too Much about myself and about Others. Anonymity and Privacy is a Big Concern of The New Blog. Huge. I at least want to pretend like I am obsessed with my Career, and My Opinions and Weltanschauung are nothing if not Politically Incorrect, Offensive, and Career-Killingly Unemployable! So I am trying to make myself unidentifiable to any and all Future Employers. Career Is Survival.
I have always been quite narcissistic, so talking about myself is a pleasure and an end unto itself. But I’m not so narcissistic in Real Life, but I just said I would not talk about My Real Life…
…Other than that one of my main obsessions has been Young Tail (Pv$$y), and this obsession motivates much of my interest in Men’s Issues. I see Gamers mocking MGTOWs and MGTOWs mocking Gamers and thought that MY purpose within the Manosphere was to Bring All These Men Together. In my view, there’s no reason all these “Factions” within the Manopshere can’t get along and coexist peacefully. I don’t think Men should be shaming and attacking each other. All Men should be HELPING each other achieve their own personal goals, whatever they may be. Well, within reason of course, no violence or supersadism.
I am probably leaning more towards MGTOW at the moment because I like their serious talk about The Big Picture Of Men And Women, however I definitely lean more towards Game than any MGTOW. I personally think Heartiste is a great example of a guy that covers all the bases. The only problem is his and his commenters tendency to shame betas and game-deniers and possibly less game-oriented MRAs and MGTOWs. Because I think a lot of the Social and Biological stuff Heartiste talks about IS pretty compatible with MRA and MGTOW. In other words, Heartiste may actually be an MGTOW and not know it!
In short, men have no business attacking, shaming, and mocking other men, when we all in the Manosphere can agree that Feminism, Feminists, and The Modern Mainstream Woman produced by Feminist/Marxist/Statist influence: these are what we should be fighting, these are what MRAs, MGTOWs, and Gamers alike can agree upon as a common foe.
I probably have Adult ADD, Derpression, anxiety, borderline personality, narcissistic personality, avoidant personality, hysterical/histrionic, passive agressive, definitely Sex Addiction, Latent Substance Addiction, bla bla, I really should start Therapy with Dr Tara from A Shrink for men, hahaha. I am as Batsh!t crazy and Overemotional as the Average Modern Western Woman, quite ironic uh?
But sometimes I manage to get it together I suppose.
Rambling but that is what this new blog is about, you don’t have to LIKE it. I am openly an 455hole and will delete your comment if I really want to, hahaha. I say racist, sexist, and occasionally violent and abusive things, although I officially and openly disavow actual violence. I am aware that my nonserious usage of Violent Shock Humour might diminish the Legitimacy of my Serious concern for Men’s Issues, since I might be somehow Tainting these Good Men by association. This could become a serious problem, I’m well aware. However I want to have my cake and eat it too, which I often Criticise Modern Women for doing. I want to laugh at Women-Beating jokes and comics and then also come out and support valid MRA groups like A Voice For Men, and obviously all serious Men’s Groups disavow violence, like they should. My point is, I would never go into Paul’s House and start talking my trash, because he would Ban me, and he’d be Right to do so. However In BKC’s House, I will say whatever BS I want to.
However my Fundamental Moral Stance was solidified when, among other things, I watched “Three Guys One Hammer” one day and concluded that Violence Was Wrong, Immoral, and Evil. That in my mind was one of the mysterious ways The Lord works, and how any benevolent g-d could allow something like that. To Wake People Up to Real Evil.
Note that I am not a True Believer or Born Again anything, but Faith and Doubt and Religion are among my Interests. Recently my position has been that I’ve been annoyed by smug First-world Reddit Atheists, and I’ve been Going Back to reexamine the Religious Tradition in which I was raised.
First World Problems, yep. Oooooooo, Waaaaaaaaaah, “I have to get a job and work for a living like everyone else, woe is me, I don’t even have African Warlords mutilating my family, I’ll probably live to age 74, I don’t have cancer or aids but I’m not 100% Satisfied with the quality of TAIL I’m getting, waah waah waaah,” Yeah I love First World Problems. I got 99 First World Problems and a B ain’t one. Or maybe they’re all of them.
Point: I am interested in Survival and what We have to do to do it. Especially us smug educated privileged First Worlders, and how some of us can come from great backgrounds and then just throw it all away like Defective Total Losers, hahahahaha.
I am fully convinced Men Gain Value as they age, and Women lose value as they age. The Peak Age for Women is Early Twenties. All Women should get married at that time because that’s when they can pull the best possible man. And women should not be promiscuous before then (or ever.) Sexual Power is like the Ring of Power in Lord of the Rings. It can be used for good or for ill. Many if not most women use it for Evil. Or at least for Retarded, hahaha. Women should not be Promiscuous because They don’t have to Work to get C0ck, to have S3x with people they find really attractive. They just sit there and look pretty and early 20s and don’t act a B!tch. With this power comes great responsibility, and I honestly don’t think I’d want it. I would not like to be tasked with such life-long, long-term decision making when I was in MY early twenties. In fact, in my own early twenties I made some terrible decisions which, in my late twenties, I’m still trying to recover from. The point is, being a man, and since these weren’t c0ck Carousel Spread My Uterus decisions, I CAN bounce back from them. In the Medium Term. Anyway. If A Young Women remains relatively Chaste and Pure and Innocent, then the Gift of her Young Pv55y to a man actually MEANS something, as It Should, because the Young Pvssy is nothing but the Gateway to the Uterus, where the great 9-month Sacrifice is made, and it SHOULDN’T be Thrown around willy-nilly like a horny man beating off 10 times a day to porn.
And when a Young Woman gives her Unbutthexed Uterus to a man, then he possibly CAN commit to that. Also C0Ck Carousel Carousing decreases a woman’s ability to Pair-Bond and commit to her man and to be Loving and Kind and Wifely and Motherly. So the Young Pure Girl falls head over heads in obsessional infatuational druglike oxytocin biochemical love with the man, the man says, well that’s nice of her, I can appreciate her radiant love and her radiant young body, and even as her body falls from graces and starts aging a few years later, he can hold the image of her When She Was Young and that will actually mean something. That she gave the Best Years of Her Life to HIM. And he will respect that by committing. Well ideally he could get a little action on the side too, if he wants.
Men are programmed to want to F everything that moves, to spread their seed, because they had a lot of seed to give and it was real easy to do so. Just Beat and Squirt and there it is. And since they were often being used as Fodder of some sort: going to war, being ripped to shreds by saber-toothed tigers, beaten to death by other men, falling off cliffs, working 24 hours a day until they dropped dead in the field before age 30, well, if they wanted to Leave An Heir they pretty much would have to bang anything that moved, any chance they could get, and chances were few and far between. Many men died hierless.
However, I don’t advocate for the SUPER-Traditional, Social Conservative view of White Knight Men who Work Their 455es off as Mere Utilities and Workhorses for Women. (Although I do believe Stay At Home Mothers are probably better for their children than Careerist Shrikes, hahaha.)
Anyway Women are NOT Biologically programmed to want to F everything the way men are, no matter how much Feministic Educators say that Men and Women are the same and all the differences between us are due to Social Programming alone. My perspective on this boils down to: Female Birth Control can only go so far. You can drive nature out with a pitchfork, but it only comes roaring back again, as the saying goes. (yes I’m well aware Tom Waits did not INVENT that figure of speech!) And even if you’re on female hormonal birth control, that CAN NEVER change the fact that you ARE female and that you HAVE a uterus and that you HAVE the CAPACITY/CAPABILITY/POSSIBILITY of getting pregnant in the first place. Men will never have uteri and will never know this possibility. Many women have been fooled into thinking they have absolute control over their uteri, but I think their Animal Brain can’t be fooled in the end. And because women have different Physical Endowments and Hormones and such, the experiences of their Sexual Lives will always be drastically different than men’s, and trying to fool them otherwise has had dramatically negative consequences in the Sexual Market and in Modern Hetero Relationsh!ts.
The Pill can keep you from Getting Pregnant Temporarily, but it doesn’t Keep Women from BeingThe One Single Sex Who CAN Get Pregnant.
Women can not have Casual Sex because Sex can never be just casual for Women. Women don’t just Squirt a L04d of EGGS out of their Cl!ts. They get 400 eggs per Lifetime and A Uterus than can be occupied for 9 months, let’s not forget the labor of the birthing process, etc. My point is not to be like “Ohhhh Gaia Earth Womb Goddess Of Fertility, Barf” but more like “This is a big RISK with substantial COSTS and SACRIFICES, so you better start ACTING like it.”
So when lots of women go around during their Peak Years having Casual sex, they’re essentially ruining themselves for life, and it’s no surprise that when they “Hit The Wall” by age 30 and the Biological Clock is ticking deafeningly loud and they wonder why don’t my Career and Cats and Casual Flings satisfy my Eternal Soul, well that’s the Nature coming roaring back, only now their bargaining chip in making the most of that deal has been vastly diminished by time and c0cks and cynicism and overinflated self-esteem and treating men as disposable and replaceable.
So I’m interested in Helping Men. Though I shame Betas SOMETIMES (not as bad as Heartiste or more Game-oriented people!), indeed, that I even USE terms like Alpha and Beta seriously does show my own ideological acceptance of Game Ideas which “more” MRA or MGTOW writers would call BS…..anyway I want to Support and Empower men, whether their goal is to Bang Young Tail, or to avoid getting raeped up the 455 in Divorce/Family Court, to not getting married in the first place, to going ghost and GYOW and living your life for yourself and just making the most of it, including surviving in a world where it can be really challenging to even survive in the first world because you made stupid mistakes when you were young and didn’t get a STEM degree and now you’re unemployable and living in your Mom’s Basement and a Shame to yourself and your family, and Invisible to Young Tail, hahahaha.
I don’t agree all the time with my favourite writers, bloggers, youtubers, who I will put on the sidebar, but I do agree with them most of the time. For example, Barbarossaaaa might not like Heartiste but I like them BOTH. Stardusk might disagree severely with Rocking Mr E, but I like them Both. This is what I mean when I say I want to be a Bridge-Builder within the Manosphere. HELL I Even Like Omega Virgin Revolt / The Black Pill, I like Alek Novy, I like all these men. I think as Manosphere Men, our similarities are a LOT more significant than our differences.
Bernard Chapin might be my greatest “influence.” I discovered him a few years ago and things have not been the same since. (I supposed the same could be said of Heartiste, but I listen to Chapin more regularly and identify with him personally more.) I suppose a large part of that is due to Uncle Bern’s inimitable Male Charisma and Personality than comes across in his videos. I love it and will always have a Mancrush on him. More than anyone in the Manosphere, Chapin is the one guy I would most like to MEET. (Although Barbarossaaaa is gaining to second place, hahaha.)
I’ve said that I would love to see a Talk Radio Show featuring Lively Discussion amongst: Bernard Chapin, Barbarossaaaa, Girl Writes What, and Heartiste; and a bunch of callers too of course. I think Heartiste should accept his unofficial status as “A” Godfather of this “movement” and step out of the shadows and do something like that. And I think he and his crew should stop making fun of Other Men, and those Other Men (the more MGTOW and “game-deniers”) should stop hating Heartiste, because he DOES have a lot of important stuff to say. I also would like to see a Men’s Convention every year with Actual People like those mentioned above. It could be half feasting and partying, and half getting down to serious business and trying to come up with real solutions to Men’s Problems.
Ok that’s enough for now, I both indulge hedonistically in and partially am ashamed of my laziness and propensity to retire to bed early without doing enough Career Work, but I’ve got to get up early AND I would still like to squeeze in some A Voice For Men (really looking forward to hearing the Barbarossaaaa call-in that just recently happened, this is hopefully an example of the bridge-building I’m talking about, as I’ve often wished someone like Barbarossaaaa or Chapin or Heartiste would call in to AVfM, and I’m a big fan of Men Talking and Talk Radio and Actual Voices and Oratory and Speech and Conversations, as opposed to Writing and Reading Per Se, hahahaha.)