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YOU DON’T NEED AN AVG MODERN WESTERN LEGAL WIFE TO HAVE A FAMILY

So Mindweapon sez : “There’s nothing White Americans yearn for more than a meaningful mission in life; for something to do that matters.” If you’re not comfortable with his “White” qualification, just imagine the word isn’t there, hahahaha. His suggestion is for suburban dwellers to grow livestock feed for meat farmers. This will develop a strong alliance between these groups.

We are Grasping at Straws trying to Cobble together such a transcendent Existential Purpose: by far, IMHO, most Tryhard Moderns do so with Careeeeeeeeeeeeer-Worship. A Much smaller group, namely men interested in Game such as myself, hahahahaha, attempt to do so making Chasing Young Tail our God. For better and worse. Somewhere in the vast middle there’s Religious people. (I daily desperately bargain, pray, & BEG to The LORD for deliverance from this very sucky evil demon; to magically/miraculously transform me from worshipping young Tail to worshipping HIM – it would be SUCH an improvement.)

Each of these Missions In Life is deeply flawed, with the Straight Religious one being the least so.

Be prob even slightly better just to live a Purely Selfish Life: Which combines the Best aspects of all three mentioned above. You want a good Careeeeeer but you don’t worship the careeeeer itself, you’re just doing it to give YOURSELF a comfortable living. And then you worship God so you don’t look like an UNGRATEFUL NARCISSIST. You get a harem of Young Tail to serve YOU and make YOU haaaaaaappy, but you never CHASE it slavishly.

But even this is all WAY too hedonistic and shallow. But it’s better than the above three, hahaha. I guess Pure Honest Religiosity (ie at least 2 StandardDevs ABOVE the Average, where your Faith compels you to choose a Relgious Vocation) would be better than the Hedonism avenue.

Others look to (White) Nationalism. I’m not 100% haaaaaaappy with that yet, would prefer a kind of American Exceptionalist Nationalism, albeit with stronger States’ Rights. Maybe. Mencius Moldbug and Nydwracu point out some probs with pure libertarianism and democracy.

OK, I was wrong, many Westerners clearly use FAMILY as their Purpose In Life. Establishing a strong Nuclear Family, taking care of them and your extended Fam where possible. Protect Your Kin. I do support this. Except, OF COURSE, where the Daddy State interferes and divides the Nuclear Family by giving one party therein a ton of incentive to dissolve said Family. If you want a Nuclear Family, at the very least, just don’t MARRY.

Every Wimminz Ever can avail herself of the “right” to a Nuclear Family because of her Golden Uterus, InDemandedness, & Reproductive Costs. In contrast, not all Capable Men desirous of a family can have one if they don’t exhibit Alpha Social Traits. The worst of the Beta Providers. As Professor Mentu says, EVERY Wimminz, even a 40-year-old one, can get a Beta Provider if they REALLY want one. He’s just gonna get Betaer as she gets older, but his MONEY won’t get more Beta!

IHMO we need to Steer our Cultural Values to support The Nuclear Family; will take a few generations; in meantime, I tentatively suggest that those Beta Men who would otherwise Marry Cougars & Get Cleaned Out REFUSE to do that and just become SINGLE FATHERS instead, bc IMHO what they want even more than “a wife” is CHILDREN. A FAMILY.

YOU DON’T NEED AN AVG MODERN WESTERN LEGAL WIFE TO HAVE A FAMILY.

Not sure the Mathematical Implications, but I wonder if even 10% of Beta Providers Rejected Wives in favour of this new approach….that the World Would Be A Better Place.

So, be a Single Father. Of course you’ll still want SEX; just pursue it with a ROTATION of YOUNG TAIL!

Caveat: Don’t become a Single Father unless you’re prepared to be a DAMN GOOD FATHER.

Started digging into the Dr William Luther Pierce Audio Archive. Was surprised at how much I agreed with him (80%?) and how much he did not sound like a hateful, angry nutjob. Real Smart Guy!

Here’s a little Social Experiment For Men AND Women: For one week, unfollow or de-emphasize or “mute” the updates on your Fagcebook or Twitter from Wimminz; don’t do anything permanent they would notice and b!tch at you about, just MUTE them for one week and see how you feeeeeeel after not reading their bullcrap every day.

Conclusion: WIMMINZ ARE NOT CHILL. WIMMINZ ARE NO FUN. WIMMINZ ARE ANNOYING. WIMMINZ ADD NO MEEEEEEANINGFUL VALUE (other than possib helping you bang hotter wimminz after being seen as a man-who’s-socially-popular-with-wimminz)

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FEEEEEEEELING HAAAAAAAAPPY

EVEN MORE NARCISSISTIC DISCLAIMERS/EXCUSES:

Like it or not, though I wish I could Lean more towards the Intellectual, I will always be 51% Emotional/Sexual, a bit more beast than man; thus, my energy, resources, effort, work, etc would be most effectively spent by scratching THAT itch FIRST, ie, doing all I can to bang 8’s, and then everything will fall into place after that. It’s not pretty, it’s not ideal, it’s not honorable, it’s not the way I WOULD have it, but that’s the way I was born, hahaha.

(Note: I prob stole “haaaaaaapy” from Dalrock, but I can’t remember where I stole “feeeeeeeeling” from, as many writers have emphasized the danger of relying on Emotion Over Logic! Emotional “Reasoning”, Hamsterization, etc.)

Revision/Backpedal/Excuse #9,000,012,385,382,854,754,492,124: ok, yeah, maybe I am a ScientistIntellectual……on PV$$Y! YOUNG TAIL IS MY SCIENCE!!

In other words, what this entails for This Blog is More Talk on “GAME” and stuff the Big Picture types might find Pvssy-begging or at least Stoopid. Anti-Gamers will not like. I just wanted to make it clear that I AM VERY Aware of the Big Picture, but my LUST (and sloth and anxiety and shame, haha) is RAVENOUS!

Been reading a lot of Nydwracu lately. He argues (and certainly he’s not the first!) that anxiety, narcissism, neuroticism, overemotion, Betaness , these are all SWPL, Bourgeois, Hipster things. Though I have NOTHING but BIG CONTEMPT for SWPL Hipsters, I am still very emo and narciss.Yikes! I don’t want to be a SWPL Hipster, or a privileged, decadent young nihilist!

He also argues that many Leftists become Political Activists not because they REALLY believe in the Social Justice Ideals of Making the World a Better Place (ok, the Brahmin / First Tier convince themselves of that!) but the less pseudointellectual will come right out and say “because it makes me FEEEEEL Whole.” They do it for PERSONAL THERAPEUTIC REASONS. Double Yikes!

They don’t care about SOCIETY, they only care about Themselves and FEEEEEELING HAAAAAAAPPY! Because they’re such undeveloped people that their main purpose is to make themselves feeeeeel haaaaaappy!

My excuse is, I care about Society 49% and myself 51%, ha. Gotta Help the Helper. With Young Tail. So Let’s Talk YOUNG TAIL!!!

Heartiste was talking about the Recent Kristen Stewart / Rob pattinson thing, her Cheating on him, etc, perfect examples of Hamsterization, Hypergamy, etc.

King A /Matthew King comments on that thread, that’s EXACTLY what I was thinking of. Stewart is an interesting example because we’re watching her Flower Wither RIGHT NOW. She started when she was a Young Teen, Peaked at a Typical Peak Age of say 19 or 20 or 21, and then after that, like always, it’s all downhill, even if it’s a slow march downhill at first. We got to see her Pre-Peak, Peak, and now Post-Peak. Sure she’s still bangable, & I’m so beta that adding her to my Rotation – even at her current age – would IMPROVE my rotation’s pretty-weak AverageAttractiveness (ie even post-peak, she’s still Hotter than the Wimminz in my Rotation), but, the Biological Fact remains: she’s still POST-PEAK. She’s not gonna get any prettier. She was at her prettiest a couple years ago. Not Anymore.

Zooming in on this hump of the curve – pre, peak, and post – that’s part of My Science. The brief, brilliant window of time from ages 17-21 approx. Young Is Young.

This is obvious to everyone, but it’s also something that can’t be talked about in polite company. Wimminz go cray DENYING it, Men are too Ashamed to talk about it for fear of being labeled a Creep, Ephebophile, or Pedophile.

AN EPHEBOPHILE MAN IS A HEALTHY MAN!

This is not to shame men who like to bang cougars. Just saying an Ephebe has Magical Powers that a Cougar does NOT. Anymore. But ALL women have these powers during that Magical Age.

My Printing-Out Blog Pages was the Best Idea of The Month because it has got me Reading Way More (Blogs)! Give it a try if you like blogs but wish you could read them in “book” form! I print em in 8 size font, real small, because I’m technically Taking Advantage of a Printer that is Not Mine. So I try not to Abuse that TOO much, don’t want to get In Trouble. I can get away with 5 sheets, 10 sides, 2 columns, FILLED w size 8 font. Will dedicate one 5-sheet print session to a single author, to try to gain a decent distillation/ sample of their voice, style, ideology, etc.

Next: since I’m focusing more on GAME. try GAME bloggers: Frost, FreshFlyYoung, Danger&Play jump immed to mind. My fave Game bloggers ARE my fave game bloggers because they realize there is more to life than GAME and Young Tail, like moi, but also like moi, they can’t get enough of the young tail.

Been reading Cal Newport’s Study Hacks blog. Though I don’t AGREE with him more than 75% (MIT Grads “sweating” the Job Search because they  couldn’t get a job offer from Microsoft?), I mostly like him, and use it to get Pumped Up for Skool, which I don’t like to tryhard at, cuz there is no POINT. Plus he gave me a great new term for the Affliction I’m Suffering From: DEEP PROCRASTINATION.

OK, Nydwracu is only EIGHTEEN as of right now. IMHO his extreme youth is an asset because he is “boots on the ground” and can tell us exactly what’s happening with Today’s Yoof, but in a really smart & pretty accurate way. By far he is the Smartest, most perceptive person of 18 I’ve ever encountered! I learn more from Him than I do from College Courses! interesting idea of “STEM Technocrats” who have good enough tech skills to get jobs but they don’t really know how to THINK and become “meaningless people leading meaningless lives” just like a Redneck Juggalo. Again, I need to study the Caste System of Moldbug more, bc Nyd uses that (and many other Moldbug readers!) AND adds to it.

http://moldbuggery.blogspot.com/

Above: Moldbug fan gives nice & needed organization to Moldbug’s blog.

{ ” (summary of MoldbugsCastes by poster at newgrounds, hopefully it’s accurate summary, just wanted to post a SHORT QUOTE here)

1. Brahmins, who define status by “scholarly achievement, success in an intellectual profession, or position of civic responsibility”. If you’re reading this now, you’re probably a Brahmin, unless you’re in high school, in which case you’ll probably be one in four years.
2. Dalits, who define status by “power, wealth, and sexual success” for men and “attractiveness and popularity” for women.
3. Helots, imported peasants who define status by “hard work, money and power” for men and “attractiveness, motherhood, and association with successful men” for women. (This caste is also not all that relevant for electoral analysis; Helots generally can’t vote, and at least according to Moldbug, their children generally turn out Dalit.)
4. Optimates, the aristocratic caste, who pretty much aren’t around anymore.
5. Vaisyas, who define status by social (especially church) participation and, for men, gainful employment. (Moldbug also lists family life, but I’m not so sure about that one; I know quite a few unmarried Vaisyas.)

” }  //end newgrounds quote.

Other Summaries of Moldbug (yes I know “dumbing things down” into “soundbites” is problematic! And that “Cliffs Notes” don’t TEACH you anything, they’re for Lazy “Brandons” (Firepower) , to get anything out of anything you have to work/struggle with it, literally STRETTTTCH your brain around it, it’s not supposed to be QUICK & EASY (Cal Newport.) )

http://www.corrupt.org/columns/martin_regnen/condensed_moldbuggery

“Condensed Moldbuggery.”

More Later! Have a good weekend, don’t whine or blog too much.

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ESTHER VILAR: “THE MANIPULATED MAN”

videos of ms vilar discussing book; interviews; other work. 1000 wds on book and book alone.

love to hear her thoughts on The Modern Age. TMM written EARLY 1970s, right after Women’s “LIB” had started. Lot has changed since this mentality has sunk in for 2 generations. Compare w CCarousel, women only want Alpha Personalities – Under-30 MILLIONAIRES have trouble getting women just bc they’re DORKY. WTF?? What would Vilar say. (“millionaire matchmaker” Real Mendacious TV; but leads into Game Discussion that Male Charisma CAN outweigh Career/Financial Success if guy’s too Spergy) TMM argues women only care about men’s Money & utility & how they can be exploited as workhorse. Def similar to what Barbarossaaaa & Stardusk & John The Other say. I believe it, but there’s OTHER angle MUST be considered:  young women sowing wild oats WHILE working on career, no time or desire to be “tied down”, want to have career first, and F-Buddies for the Sex Needs, ruin Youthful Man-Magnet powers jumping from C0ck to c0ck; thing is, these c0cks don’t need to be RICH or RESOURCE-PROVIDING, rather, moreso, phys attractive AND/OR BOLDLY CHARISMATIC.

Would LOVE for Vilar to write sequel re The Modern Woman.  original book SPOT ON, but now only 50% appropriate as there’s A New Type of Woman, the kind who sees self almost AS a man, can do anything man can do better, obsessed with WORK and CAREER and ACHIEVEMENT and providing for self and “not needing a man”, when Vilar sez, in 1971, all women are stupid and lazy and will memorize textbooks enough to start a career, but ultimately want a man to work for them and provide so they can be lazy, sit on 455 all day, devote time to TRUE ambition: their SELVES. Vanity, narcissism.

Today, work/career/competing-with-men is PART of that narcissism. Women more attuned to “The Sexuality of Men” than Vilar suggests, she says women have very low libido, use this as position of power to control men, don’t really care about men’s looks or personality so long as they EARN and PROVIDE and ENABLE; all men look pretty much the same, even ugly men vs handsome men. Walter Matthau vs Rock Hudson her examples. Women don’t LOOK at men or appreciate men’s looks, only other women.

I argue this needs to be expanded for Modern. Now Women DO care more about men’s Looks AND men’s personality. Personality is MOST important: will compensate for bad looks and EVEN for no money. Alpha ATTITUDE that matters MOST in Pulling Young Tail. Is Vilar still ALIVE? (Yes.)

Often looked at jacket photo to establish “connection” with author of these powerful words. Something I do with good books. She was about 35 or 36 when book published 1971, orig in German, 1972 English trans. didn’t think so old. Born1935 Argentina, German parents, (WW2 influence? Jewish??) “studied as physician”, went back Germany 1960s study psych and sociology. Marxist Fields of course but her Medical Training redeems her IMHO, enables her to cut thru Marxist Morass. interesting life/woman, & what brings a woman to write such a book just as Feminism was really BEGINNING?& Why didn’t she write more books re Insidious Influence of Feminism INCREASING to this very day? Early death?

nope.

http://www.amazon.com/Esther-Vilar/e/B001IZTEA8/ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_5?qid=1338048096&sr=8-5

born “Katzen.” YEP THOUGHT SO LULZ. But not in the Bad way, if THAT makes any sense hahaha.

“Argentine-German PLAYWRIGHT.” Wrote a novel in 2009. wrote “The Polygamous Sex” after TMM, supposedly more serious and “sober”, less of a “POLEMIC” than TMM, so you knew she was not SATIRE or PARODY or IRONIC. “misogyny” in TMM (eg, “Women are STUPID PIGS!”) is SO Blatant, it’s understandable to question her sincerity – writing like THAT just doesn’t get PUBLISHED if actually SINCERE!  “Polygamous Sex” is about how men have The Right to cheat on Women, sounds good to me! WAY OOP, 88$ for paperback!!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Esther_Vilar

Still alive.

http://www.theabsolute.net/misogyny/vilar.html

Nice page on Kevin Solway’s classic “Misogyny Unlimited” w Vilar’s 1998 preface to re-release of TMM. NICE. Squarely puts her in MRA camp, but doesn’t address more of the game / sex marketplace stuff I mentioned above. But she DOES mention The Sexual Marketplace in original book a BIT. Haven’t even finished haha. 60 pages in. (short book, 180 pages.) just doin notes for 1000 word “review.” Book’s MORE THAN important enough to warrant own post. shoulda read YEARS ago.   .01$ on amazon, ok, didn’t realise. ALL MRAs, buy, read, enjoy!

http://manboobz.blogspot.com/2010/11/esther-vilar-crazy-catty-lady.html

Manboobz’s cheap deflection of vilar as “crazy cat lady”.

http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf

PDF of ENTIRE BOOK from Don’t Marry. NICE!

most Youtube stuff in German. But she looks better than on book jacket, where seems to have lazy eye. Nope, not really.

could have been POWERFUL True MRActivist had she wanted, but Ithink woulda been too much for her. Didn’t want to commit to The Lifestyle? Still don’t JUDGE her for it – MRAs ARE Despised & unpopular!

Men’s creativity limited by desire to SUBMIT to Female Approval. Men Want pv$$y and PRAISE from women SO DESPERATELY they WILFULLY give up FREEDOM.

Analyzing her args qua own life. Been obsessed w Young Tail for YEARS – has INTERFERED w my “natural male curiosity” or “Scientific ambition” such that I don’t really HAVE enough that curiosity – entire goal is GETTING YOUNG TAIL, Over and over and over, not as curious in science, politics, systems, The Universe. Well, THAT’s not true. Def care about analyzing POLITICS and EvolPsych and Sociology (nonMarxist haha), although interest has pu$$y COMPONENT bc it ALWAYS deals w WOMEN in one way or other: Feminism, MRA, Game, books like Vilar’s, etc. Always WOMEN INVOLVED. very HARD to truly GO OWN WAY & just FORGET about Pv$$y ALTOGETHER & become Great Scientist/Inventor. (Tesla, Newton) Wish I COULD! Proves Vilar’s Implication that Some Men FEAR True Freedom & WANT to be ENSLAVED!!!

Despite Young Tail OBSESSION, still not sure if JUICE WORTH SQUEEZE. Lifetime Of Hard Thankless “Soul-Destroying” (Vilar uses exact adjective!) Labor is not worth UNLIMITED access to YOUNG Tail, LET ALONE Limited Access to Disloyal, Disgracefully Aging Tail!

better to just sit around lazy unemployed loser – though u don’t get “pleasure” of trash tail, you DO avoid displeasure of throwing yr own life away. The RUB is when this man STILL can’t get Young Tail out of his MIND. Young Tail is the MINDKILLER. I should write THAT book, how to excise THAT obsession from Internal Mind.

Vilar presents SCATHING, SCABROUS, INCENDIARY INDICTMENT of Average Modern Western Woman – and Vilar ain’t seen NOTHIN yet in 1971!

Mild criticism, & perf understandable given 1971: Vilar portrays All Women as Cold, Calculating (but stupid) Frigid monsters who have NO interest in sex & use it ONLY to control man. I’d argue nowadays only 70% true; Avg Modern Western Wimminz prove that Women are JUST AS Cvmcrazy for bold, confident, powerful Alpha Males as We Men are Cvntcrazy for virginal 18-year-old girls. Naturally Avg Beta Males never SEE this Secret World & THINK AMWW are Frigid & controlling; Betas never wear the Ring Of Power to CONTROL women through WOMEN’s Limited-to-Alphas-Only Lust.

MUCH more ethical 2B Alpha Manipulating Women than Women Manipulating Man because: Alphas are ONLY manip YOUNG women for SEX, & for BRIEF period of TIME, while these men continue to live their lives, go own way, enjoy freedom, do meaningful, masculine life’s WORK. WOMEN manip MEN (ie avg beta men) so they can EXPLOIT/STEAL the men’s WORK for a LIFETIME, so women dont have to WORK. See? 9000X worse. QED.

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DESPERATION & SEXUAL CHOICE

That will be my starting point but I fully intend to go off on a few tangents. I might even talk about Finnish Funeral Doom Metal because I haven’t started my “off-topic” blog yet. Or my YouTube channel, hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Upon listening to Paul and Dr T’s show “Sh!t Tests”, what seemed obvious to me, and which the people weren’t saying but it HAD to be on their minds at least implicitly, was the concept/emo of DESPERATION: How DESPERATE for Pv$$y do you have to be to sacrifice your self-respect and let yourself get taken advantage of?

I was eavesdropping on a conversation the other day where a Young Girl appeared to be debating the merits of Breaking Up with her Boyfriend. I wish I could have gotten more details or even inserted myself in the dialogue without being “CREEPY”, but, it still reminded me of some Power/Life Experience/Demand Differentials and prompted me to recognize a few generalizations that you can either agree with, or get all uppity about:

Regarding Young Couples, it’s USUALLY the woman who DUMPS the man;

The Man USUALLY takes it harder because he has a more pressing fear that he’ll never be able to Pull Pv$$y THAT good ever again, and in many cases, he is RIGHT;

The Woman has a Moral Obligation to Let Him Down Easy;

The Woman wants to Get Out of the Rel more than the Man does; She is less attached/infatuated with him than he is in her; she has invested less than he has; the balance of power tips in HER favour.

These are all slightly different ways of saying the same thing.

Many times, the Woman already has her eye on another Viable Option, if she’s not already sexting photos back and forth with his L04d on her smiling face, hahahahahahahahaha.

“That’s Bitterness! That’s Anger! That’s Little Boy Rage!”

Or that might just be the shrill cry of a short-sighted Sl00t who was burned because she foolishly sexted photos of her with 104d on her face, haha.

But with that “immaturity” out of the way, you can still comprehend my point. The Young Woman has a world of options, and she’s got a case of “The Grass Is Probably Greener”.

The guy, more likely than not, is not “coming” from this same “place” of privilege and has a vested interest in holding on to the “good thing” that he’s got. “Good” in terms of it’s a Beautiful Young Body that keeps him in an Infatuation High. Not Good because she’s giving him the Runaround and Not Respecting him as a Man or even as a Fellow Human Being.

One of my favourite euphemisms for Female Dumping is “I had to LET HIM GO”, as if it’s so PAINFUL for the Woman, but she has to Do The Right Thing for them Both, and both of them will ultimately be happier for it. It’s a Win-Win!

More likely she will be ecstatic in the short-term and he will be crushed and angry and desperate!

I think this all boils down the idea of desperation and options. The man would not be NEARLY so upset if he had a Harem of Options. So what if One Beautiful Young Girl Flakes Out? He’s got others to take her place. Otherwise, the man might feel burned at what he interprets – very ACCURATELY! – at him being REPLACED with a Better Model.  If he has the power – the HAND – to replace HER with a better model, he’s not going to be even 1% as angry. He’ll just keep on doing what he’s been doing: B4nging Young Tail and Winning.

I see this more of a Young Person’s Thing. It’s the difference between Twenty and Thirty between Men and Women. Hopefully by the time he is Thirty, the man will have his Affairs and Life and Career more in order and he too will begin to enjoy the privilege and power of OPTIONS. Enhancing this power is also the fact that Thirty Year Old Women do not have even 1% of the power that Twenty Year Old Girls do. There is a difference in the quality of the SKIN and the FACE and the ATTITUDE that signifies that Father Time has left his inexorable mark. Even if Women do not notice, men most certainly do. Even if they’re not CONSCIOUS of it.

I’m very interested in the idea of The Power Of Options – Sexual CHOICE, in other words – so I like Game Writers like Heartiste who articulate this topic. Of course, Not All Game Writers Are Like That, that’s just a Game-Related interest of mine.

In New Blog, Posts Are About This Long. The type of thing you could give a quick 8-to-10-minute YouTube-length Speech about, so I’ll think about Wrapping it up. I just wanted to Open the topic permanently. I will certainly be discussing it more in the future. Maybe even appending to this very post in the Near future.

One last analogy: You could almost compare it to an Excruciating Job Search. I don’t know Any Man who LOVES the Job Search process. Every part of it is excruciating. But it’s gotta be done. I imagine that once one secured a Halfway Decent Bigboy Job  – although it might not be one’s “Dream Career” that Careerist Wimminz tremble over in hushed tones as if they were in the presence of A Very Sexy Alpha Man-God – but enough to pay the bills and the debt and health care and live in safety outside of an Underclass War Zone, the man might breathe a grateful sigh of relief that he can stop Looking For A New Job, and just focus on doing well at the job that he HAS. He’s already done more than enough Due Diligence and invested enough of himself up to this point. And now Working Hard has become its own reward. The LAST thing he wants to hear is “YOU’RE FIRED!” and then have to start the long hard road all over again from the beginning!

Semi-related is this Eureka Moment I had, where when a Wimminz wants to DUMP a man, they have to NEGOTIATE A CONTRACT which basically includes a Schedule Of “Severance Bangs.” No man is going to take it lightly when the woman essentially says, “You’re immediately cut off, as of right now, from my body, ever again.” Unless he has Options, Hand, Sexual Choice, whatever you want to call it. It would be a lot easier to take (see “Moral Obligation To Let Him Down Easy”) if she said, OK, Since I’m unilaterally ending this and I probably have more options than you – (Essentially She is the Management or “The Employer!” ) – I’m going to Pay Out 50 more Bangs to you, which will end on such and such a date.  (For the sake of example, no sooner than three months in the future. Just because IMHO I think The Fiscal Quarter of Three Months is not too short and not too long and a period of time everybody should be able to live with for most things, hahahahahahaha. Not talking about Cancer or more extreme things of COURSE.)  This would be more Compassionate and Just for the Beta, and I certainly don’t think it would be causing undue Emotional Damage to the Wimminz either.

Yes, this is similar to the notion of Guys “Hooking Up” with Their “Exes”, but I think there’s much more dignity, honor, honesty, justice, etc in the much more unambiguous Contract version outlined above. Yes this is all theoretical because if we could write and enforce contracts like this, we wouldn’t have The Marriage Problem in The West Today. Wouldn’t It Be Nice.

And NO, I’m not speaking from Personal Experience, because I have enough Self-Respect that I will always stand up for Myself even if the Options situation is slightly less-than-ideal – any lack of hand will not coerce me into being a Lickspittle Supplicator! Although I do think, in general, we should have More Sympathy For The Beta, because we’ve all been there or can at least visualize and empathize with Being There.

That’s all for now, Have A Productive, Peaceful, Powerful Day.

And, As Usual, If You don’t have anything NICE to say…..

 

Pure Narcissism Edit, Next Day: I call it that because this may not add anything Substantive to the original post, but is just me going through my daily writing Preening Ritual: I want to write something, and for a not entirely articulable narcissistic reason, I want to Publish it, although I’m not claiming it’s Awesome Profound writing (although I hope it will be!), so does that still make it Narcissistic?

I would really like to talk about Funeral Doom, specifically Mournful Congregation, but I would also like to talk about something, anything, more “on-topic” first. Because, this is first and foremost, and I should really have a Mission Statement, a Men’s (And Fetuses, haha) CIVIL RIGHTS Blog!

That is my idea of “Humor” or “Comedy”. I was just driving along minding my own business, just trying to get away from the other drivers, when I thought “How’s that for a pickup line for the Bourge Marxist University Activist Pv$$y: I’m a CIVIL RIGHTS ACTIVIST. Or HUMAN RIGHTS ACTIVIST. But just for Men and Fetuses!”

This makes it sound like I care more about Young Tail than I do about Genuine Men’s Rights. That is a unsettling thought, though I admit from the outset that I am abnormally obsessed in Young Tail. This is perhaps what makes me a “Larval” or “Pupae” or “First-Stage” MRA – I’m still too much what Philip Roth in “Portnoy’s Complaint” so pithily termed “Cvnt Crazy” that I can’t see the forest through the trees; my judgment, logic, emotions, and skills are impaired by my Libido; I am a prime candidate for being Brainwashed through my S3xual Desire, etc.

Then I was thinking “Average Modern Western Women Just Don’t Respect Their Uteruses/Uteri.” Though AMWW have the most severe long-term penalties/costs for Sexual Miscalculation, they still seem to act “unnaturally” in favor of the Short Term, ignoring the Long Term Consequences altogether, probably because they have been Enabled in their Poor Choices by: The Average Modern Western Government & Culture & Lamestream (hehe) Media which says they can do no wrong.

But I keep thinking about the Uterus. This Natural Organ is itself a Long-Term Thing, where A Fetus can Grow for 9 months. Yet AMWW are throwing it around like a Horny Young Man Beating-Off into a Sperm Sock: having Babies with extremely “irresponsible” False Alphas.

It sounds like I’m making the Traditionalist, Social Conservative, White Knight, Man Up, Protector/Provider, Captain Save-A-H0 Argument of Women Good, Men Bad; Women are Holy Sacred Cows who must be protected at any cost, and Men are the Brutish Fodder, who, just because Sperm is Cheap and Eggs are Very, Very Expensive, then it only Naturally Follows that Faceless Men should be Lining Up To Die To Protect The Holy Pv$$y, Gladly Sacrificing their Lives, which are clearly Worth much, much less.

Strawman alert! While I do believe Eggs are Much More Expensive than Sperm, and that this IS related to why it’s no big deal for a Boy to Beat-Off 10 times a day & it IS a big deal for Women to Throw Away their Uterus on Thuggish Abandoners, it DOES NOT Follow that I believe Men-As-Humans are Worth Less than Women-As-Humans; on the Human Basis we are Equals. You could have all the Women in the World but you STILL couldn’t produce New Human Life without One Man, One Sperm. In that case, this one sperm would be Priceless, and No One would make the mistake of treating men as Expendable, Disposable, Replaceable Appliances.

As Modern Western Men enter into adulthood, the notion of “Dating” Single Mothers becomes more and more and more of a realistic, and shockingly, even reasonable option. I still avoid doing so on principle. I say Listen To Your Genes. Think With Your Selfish Genes. Many Kind, Loving Beta Men end up Being A Father to Children they have NO Relation To. I’m not saying to Shame these men; to the contrary, I find their Selfless Love very Honourable and Beautiful. But I ALSO Think: Wow, If they’re such a Good Father to a child they’re not even related to, imagine how good of a father they would be to a child that they actually ARE related to! Their Selfless, Sacrificing, Honorable Love has made them DESERVING of a Genetic Heir of their OWN! Yet their time, effort, energy, resources, and love are diverted away from their own genes, and instead used on the genes of the AMWW they’re dating!

I think at this point it becomes more about The Child than the Woman: In other words, No AMWW With Bastard Child is going to be comely and charming and magnetic and infatuation-generating enough to convince even the Kindest Beta Sap to Love Her Kid because SHE’S so awesome. The man is doing it because he has a Good Fatherly Instinct, and my stance is, by that point, he’s Passed The Father Test, and THESE are the kinds of men the AMWW should have had the babies with in the FIRST place.  If they had actually Treated Their Uterus with the Respect it Deserved and really Took the time to Evaluate The Man who was Impregnating Them. They should have Closed Their Legs and Thought for a Minute: Is this man who’s impregnating me Good Long-Term Father Material?

I suppose in those cases, a Good Willy-Nilly Frivolous Abortion might not be such a bad idea. I am still Struggling with my Official Stance on Abortion, this is likely to be Evolving for a while. Although I am probably leaning towards the Pro-Lifer Crowd, hahahaha. But not solely for as much of a Religious Dogmatism as for my rigid SocioBiological Deterministic Dogmatism, hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.  Sacred Womb, Golden Uterus, etc.

Reminder that I do want to talk about Chivalry and Troubadours and Courtly Love and the Ideas of Which that started in the Middle Ages with the Arthur Legends and songs and all that. Not today. I’m almost done with my Narcissism Appendment.

Anyway to finish up Today’s Thoughts on Abortion: I think AMWW Are, to put it Simply, Abusing Their Uteri. Really Beating It Up Bad Beyond All Repair. Along with The C0ck Carousel comes the Pregnancy-By-Cads Carousel and the Abortion Carousel, and I’m simply stating my Opinion that the Uterus is something quasi-sacred that should not exposed to Carousels of ANY kind! (But not disproportionately Sacred to Men’s Sperm, or, more accurately I guess, Testicles! )

Of COURSE we have to take Social Class into this, and, rightfully, Charles Murray’s “Coming Apart” has generated fervent discussion in the Manosphere and the larger social/political sphere in the 6 to 9 months since its publication. I haven’t read it, but I watched Murray present the main points of the book on CSPAN Book TV, and have read a lot of Manosphere Analysis onnit, hahahahaha.  Anyway, the point I wanted to throw out there: Are too many of the wrong people Getting Abortions, or, put another way, are the people who “SHOULD BE” Getting Abortions NOT getting them? Are The Underclass Hoi Polloi in Fishtown getting knocked up by Caddish Thugs and then giving birth to babies they can’t support, so they rely on (at best!) The Kindness of Betas, or (more troublingly) an entitlement-happy State? Whereas The Urban Hipster SWPL Bourgeversity-Education “Belmont” types in New York (everyone from “Manjawed Lawyercvnts” to Bon-Iver-Loving Zooey Deschanel Wannabes), who are more likely to be Career-Obsessed and to actually HAVE a Living-Wage Career, are also more likely to Abort the Fetuses, which if they had Carried To Birth, would probably be Less Likely to Rely On The State to Support?

So yes I’m taking these SocioEconomic things into account and not just my Born-Again Catholicism into account when considering abortion.

One last thing for today. I was watching TV, too ADD and angstily libidinous to Read, when I came across a “documentary” on NatGeo about Hasidic Jews, something fairly recent called “Only For God” or “One With God” or something like that. It was an Over 9000-Yard View of a day in the life of “modern” Hasids and left me wanting more, but I found this superficial introduction interesting nonetheless. If I were a Jew I would have made a pretty good Hasid. In particular I remember a Young Man who was born to a Catholic Father and a Jewish Mother. His family life was much more Catholic than Jewish and he went to Catholic Schools until age 18. Then he moved to a Hasidic Community in Brooklyn and jumped in the deep end. Yes it screamed “overcompensation” and “Pendulum swing” but I can relate to that. To an extent.  And then there was a Hasidic Wedding, with a Big Smiling Teddybear Chubby Chumpy Beta Niceguy with a Huge Hasidic Neckbeard getting married to A Nice Religious Jewish Girl (who probably wasn’t as big of a Wh0re as non-Hasidic Jewesses, hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha! )  My initial reaction was quite positive considering it was a Wedding/Marriage! I especially liked how they kept the men and the women separate at the Reception Party, and then finally lifted the bride and the groom up so they could see each other over the Dividing Curtain. I still have to “process” these Initial Emotions to see if I can find the Deeper Meaning behind them. It probably connects to my newfound appreciation for “Extreme” Religious Devotion and how THAT in turn relates to the Religious, Cultural, and Legal aspects of Mawwaige. Recently I’ve argued that Modern Western Men, should they find in themselves an inexorable desire to marry, that, if they feel they HAVE to appease that urge, to do so ONLY in a Religious/Spiritual sense and NOT in a Legal/State sense.

At any rate, the TV Show was as Superficial and Devoid Of Meaning as you expect from A TV SHOW, but it was better than Wh0redashians, and it did leave me with the lingering feeling that I would probably Get Along Well with these Hasidic Men. Then we could each have 1000 heirs with 1000 18-year-old virgin girls, and Give Thanks To The Lord with Really Solemn Funeral Doom.

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ANGER

Anger is associated with men moreso than with women. If any emotion were “allowed” to men, it would be anger. Allowed, but not approved. While anger is seen as immature and violent (why does anger NEED to be “violent”?) and ineffectual and unjustified, it’s still more “manly” and “strong” than feeling weak or sad or lonely or afraid. Then you’re just a weak f4gg0t who can’t stand up for himself and get things DONE and Own Your Sh!t and Be Accountable for your actions.

There is “justified” anger – the righteous indignation you feel when you witness true injustice. And then there is “unjustified”, immature, “little boy” rage that you may feel when you don’t get Your Way.

Men who want to be Heterosexual with women – and many men do – but who fail miserably, never really getting what they want, may be initially attracted to Game, as it seems to teach them a skill to fulfill a rather immediate, pressing, serious want.

Full-Blown, Self-Identified MRAs and MGTOWs are GENERALLY more attuned to Structural Injustices and broader societal and historical trends of Misandry, than are some of the more myopic students of Game, who seemed to be obsessed with Young Tail even more than I am, or at least voice little concern over anything BUT Young Tail.

I fully understand and empathize with the “little boy rage” of the Gamers, and would like to remove the shaming and stigma attached to this “lesser” form of anger. While I don’t think being angry about “not being able to get laid” has the same level of seriousness as being angry about men’s LIVES being DESTROYED on the job, on the battlefield, or in the family courts, I think Anger-over-Sexual-Rejection still has significantly more legitimacy than its detractors claim.

There is a ton of shame heaped on Betas. Lots of patronization. Not just from Feminists who think Game is Misogynist, but from Regular Women who think Betas (and Game itself) are creepy (“Creepy” will almost certainly be a future post, hahaha), to male game-deniers who see all Game-Readers as short-sighted Pv$$y-Beggars, to the Alphas the Betas idolize. Shame, like Anger, CAN be a good motivator, but too much of it can be destructive. The “best” is when you get shamed for BEING angry, because you’re “too angry”, and for the “wrong reasons”. Methinks the Shamers have never experienced Intense Anger and how debilitating it can make one. When you are really really Angry, you are no good to no one. You can’t get anything done. Nothing. So yeah I guess I can understand how Anger gets portrayed as a pathology.

Rambling in circles again. Is it because I’m too angry? Maybe. I do often struggle with anger, and I can attest that it can become overwhelming and not productive or motivating or usable.

For example, it’s valid, understandable, and even “reasonable” to feel anger when you are rejected, taken advantage of, or simply don’t get what you want.  I think framing it as “little boy rage over not getting what the little baby wants” is a STRAWMAN, because even a little child is far less angry for far less time when his parent says “no ice cream for you!” than when one person rejects another.  That’s a difference in KIND as well as in degree: The next day the child is no longer mad about the ice cream, probably because he knows he will have ice cream again soon anyway, and it will be sweeeeeeet. Being rejected by another person is a bit like being told you’re just not good enough as a person, and you never will be. That kind of Stings more than the ice cream, especially if your interest was anything more than just purely sexual, for example infatuation, or you’d deluded yourself into thinking you respected them as a person.

I argue men are, on the average, much MUCH more intimately familiar with this kind of rejection and disappointment than are women. If women had to put up with as much rejection and failure and disappointment and loss as did men, they might be killing themselves in equal proportion to men rather than just dramatically attempting suicide for show.

Of course, a moody depressed woman will still have much more access to the potential pleasure of sex than a moody, depressed man! Note: I am NOT suggesting that moody depressed women go out and have lots of sex, because that will still make you a whore. Go to a shrink, preferably one who believes in “right” and “wrong.” Yes, this may very well be a privilege not available to you. In that case, you can still Notpray All Day to some sort of Nogod. That is likely to have a positive effect if you do it enough. Try repeating this mantra to yourself as many times throughout the day as you need: “Lord Nogod, please help me. Please give me strength to get through this day, and have mercy on my nosoul.” Over and over and over again.

So my point before I got angry was, Rejection sucks and can lead to great anger and instead of getting support and compassion, men are shamed for their anger and just pushed deeper into anger, and then if they “snap” and do something violent, then people conclude that anger ALWAYS CAUSES to violence, anger IS violence, and other nonsense. Its one of those Nuanced Arguments where the Nuances can get too easily confused. I can see how and why people confuse Anger and Violence. But I think that’s a grave miscalculation. A Serious Miscorrelation.

Anger for being Rejected by your Wife and separated from your kids and taken to the Cleaners and Living The Rest of your life in Debtor’s Prison is much, much worse than anger for getting rejected by Cute Young Girls for Sex. But I wonder if some of those in the second group don’t eventually become part of the first group. It’s their own damn fault, though, for being Gameless Betas and letting people walk all over them, isn’t it? True, they have SOME responsibility for that, but I’d place at LEAST 70% of the blame upon the person who does the walking-on. They should really know better.

I recall reading a comment thread somewhere – I know Alek Novy was involved – either at Heartiste or AVfM, where someone did a Venn Diagram of MRA and Game proponents. This might have been during the dust-up of MRA “vs” Game when Paul did his “Chateau Bullsh!t” article and related radio show. I was kinda provoked at that time, and I was a little disappointed in Paul, because I, the bridge-builder, enjoy BOTH AVfM AND Heartiste. Was that because I was a YOUNG man, or at least young enough that my Hormones were raging enough for me to be Obsessed with Young Tail? (But: I can feel myself getting Old, and I am STILL obsessed with Young Tail!)

I’m too lazy to go back and find exactly what was said, but I’d place myself in the intersection of that Venn Diagram. I started out on Game, but then I “graduated” to MRA and MGTOW, however I never fully abandoned Game either. Right now I’m trying to do a synthesis of the entire thing. I want Young Tail AND I want fairness for men in the courts, in society, in the media, and I’ll throw a Mantrum if I don’t get what I want!!!

The good news is that we can Bounce Back from rejection, dust ourselves off and try again as the saying goes; what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger, etc etc. I’ve never been a big fan of platitudes but sometimes they’re true. Except when they’re false, except when what doesn’t kill you just makes you weaker and weaker and then eventually the straw breaks the camel’s back, you get a flat tire and then you fall into a psychotic crying weak beta heap in the middle of the street like Crazy Old Nietzsche defending the poor abused horse hahahahaha. But seriously folks. Facing Adversity and Rejection and Just Keeping Living can be a great character-builder, I firmly believe. It makes you a better person, and that’s better than the Hottest Young Tail!

Or is it?

Game, as I view it, isn’t some complicated, esoteric set of routines, and it’s certainly nothing new that was invented as a solution to the “new problem” of Feminism-Empowered Entitled “Average Modern Western Women”. It’s simply charisma and confidence. Good social skills. No big “Mystery” there, hahahahaha. However, it is surprising How MANY Men have Such Below Average Social Skills. Unless, of course, the True Average is NOT to mate. The Real Average is to Have Social Skills So Crappy you’re Unable To Pull Tail. And it may be true (heh, “weasel words”) that, in the Environment of Evolution, 80% of Males died without leaving heirs, and 20% of males – the true alphas – spread their seed among harems of many, many women, and we are the legacy of those very few men combined with those multifarious women. The vast majority of men died alone, angry, afraid, and absolutely Young Tail-less, and so too will they today. Alone and afraid often go hand-in-hand with angry. And Tail-less.

“Mmm-hmm! That just goes to show you WHY anger is sooooo BAD! You push others away with your insecurity!”

I admit  I do have a Pet Peeve for Women who Give Advice. 100% of the time – even more of the time than Most Women ARE “Like That” – even when A Woman gives WELL-INTENDED advice – it comes across as Patronizing and is ultimately less than useless – it’s insulting and angering. Especially when it’s Women advising you on Anger, or How To Change Yourself To Be More Attractive to Women. How about you just STFU because you have NO idea and your opinion is Stupid and Naive and Immature and Insecure and Deluded. The person who does NO Work telling the person who does ALL the work how they should Work Better. Give me a break. How about not being such an Obnoxious B!tch.

Times like that, I will get angry enough to use the B Word!

If Bouncing back from Rejection builds character, and women get rejected far, far less than men, does it follow that women on average have much less “character” than men? I wouldn’t necessarily say that. You can be privileged and Unrejected and still not be an a55 about it! For example, I am the textbook definition of a Privileged White Male, and I try never to forget it. (Yes, I’m aware that much of MRA is about pointing out how Male Privilege is not much of a Privilege. I’m just speaking in terms of personally having a Good Family and Opportunities for College and Career Success. I take full blame/accountability for all the mistakes I’ve made in my life which have brought me to the lowly status I’m at now.)

Men generally place higher value on Honor and Respectability and Morality and Ethics than Average Modern Western Women (AMWW). You can Respect your biological privilege/power of being able to choose your desired mate exactly by not choosing every possible mate and sampling the Schlongasbord during your halcyon days. This is just as “creepy” as George Sodini in a Trenchcoat walking down the street and whipping his Dong out and jerking-off with a big leer to every woman he sees.

Violence is Inherently Wrong. Anger is NOT inherently wrong. Anger does not CAUSE violence or even necessarily LEAD to violence. I argue a very specific combination of anger, ignorance, and evil/immorality leads to violence.  (Yeah I WILL break out the “E” word!) Shaming the Angry as Potentially Violent is just a way to make their legitimate concerns appear illegitimate. This is very low-down, dishonest, dishonorable and disrespectful, and We Don’t Like It.

Those men who do have individual Sexual Frustration IN ADDITION TO “More Valid Anger” about The Broader Issues are in a particularly precarious Shame Triangle, because their opponents will say they’re JUST/MERELY Little Boys Angry That They Can’t Get Laid but they’re too Stubborn and Arrogant to Think “Gee The Common Denominator Here Is Me, Maybe It’s ME who needs to change”, etc etc ad nauseum.

So should those who DO have Sexual Frustration Go Out Of Their Way to DENY they have ANY Anger over that?

I don’t think so.

But I am currently wrestling RIGHT NOW with the notion that the tasteless “jokes” I sometimes make on Twitter wrongly make MRA’s Look Like Women Haters and Women-Violencers. And I do not want to do that to My Brothers. It could be like handing Our Heads to Feminists on a silver platter, and I definitely don’t want to do that, no matter how much I personally enjoy and laugh at Horrible, Evil Jokes about everything from Raeping Women to Gassing J3ws to Eating Babies to Molesting Children to Enslaving and Lynching Blacks, etc.

The best I can PROMISE you right now is that I will try not to make “hateful”, evil jokes every single day, or without a great deal of Thought behind them. Serious, Blogworthy Thought.

But I will NOT promise to not say crude things like “I’ll only b4ng a fat girl if she’s 23 or younger and has a young-looking face and skin.”

I’m honestly flexible on this. I suppose if an MRA I really respected, like Uncle Bern or Barbarossaaaa, messaged me “Stop making childish jokes, it makes us all look bad, it paints us all as violent idiots and sets the whole MRM back”, then I probably would stop.

I’m not gonna lie, when I was listening to the April 2012 AVfM show “All MRAs Are Privileged, Angry White Cis Men”  (not exact title; but great show as always!) I was thunderstruck when they announced the next caller was Barbarossaaaa. I cheered like my favourite sports team made a huge win. He’s one of my favourite MRAs and I’d not-so-secretly hoped he’d be a guest on AVfM one day, and I was/am really happy when I learned he was on a May Episode of AVfM’s new News/Activism show with James Huff & Robert O’Hara. I just didn’t know he had called in to one of AVfM’s other episodes at an earlier time. But it only makes SENSE. All of AVfM’s radio shows are great. I had taken a little hiatus from listening for a few months and I’m glad I stopped that hiatus.

While I do enjoy the Diversity of Opinion and Fierce Independence of MGTOWs, I also enjoy seeing a group of the strongest voices get together and talk. There was a very nice Espirit De Corps when I heard John, Girl, Typhon, and Barb conversing. Naturally in my Fantasy MRA All-Star Radio Show I add Bern and Heartiste to the conversation.

I realize this is pretty far from my starting topic of Anger, but honestly this post got off to a rough start, hahahahaha.

(I will NOT stop saying “hahahahahahaha” even if it sounds “Unprofessional” or “Unserious”, because even though We Are A Serious Movement, I and probably most other men appreciate a sense of humor, and it can be hard to convey a light tone through Sarcasm, or if your Jokes are bad, so I simply say “hahahahahahaha” not as a way to say “don’t take us seriously” but as a way to say “don’t take LIFE so seriously, have a sense of humor sometimes, or you’ll turn into a famously frumpy humorless feminist.” Hopefully everyone has had the experience of having at least one Friend in their lives (usually male!) who always comes across as cheerful, who always puts you in a better mood just by being around them, who is often laughing at their own jokes even if they’re not particularly funny, but not in an arrogant “I’m smarter than you” way, because he always laughs at everybody’s jokes, and improves the lives of everyone around him. I would like to be That Guy. A Real Good Guy Greg. At least with this blog. Since I naturally have a habit of being Debbie Downer in Real Life.)

This blog is a work in progress. Right now I see myself as “practicing” writing, so I don’t – and “The Readership” SHOULDN’T – expect it to be real good at the moment. I haven’t written blogs in a long time. I’m not entirely sure where this one is going to end up, but I know that I DON’T want it to turn into me whining Too Much like an Emotional Beta about my Personal Failures. However I DO feel a need to address my personal emotions to SOME extent, and it’s challenging finding the ideal balance there. But I will TRY to tie them in with Men/Manosphere/MRM. Because I do think it would be short-sighted to claim that powerful emotions such as Infatuation and Anger have NO RELEVANCE to Men. These emotions can be Bad if we don’t Manage them, but they’re not INHERENTLY bad and should NOT be ignored, denied, or shamed.

And regarding SHAMING, I just wanted to say that Slut-Shaming is FAR more appropriate and effective than Beta-Shaming. Betas are inherently more respectable and honorable than Sluts. Betas are not going around with the trenchcoat exposing themselves to every woman they see. Betas are simply trying and repeatedly failing to get a little action for once in their foreveralone lives. Betas need support, encouragement, help, and yes platonic LOVE from other men who have been there, not scorn and shame from Alphas Who Now Pound Piggish Pv$$y but were once whining, pathetic Beta Virgins themselves.

I’m all for Tough Love and Trial By Fire, but I think a little more Soft Love and a lot less Scorn and Shame from MEN towards OTHER MEN would be pretty damn helpful.

And, Sexual Frustration is Valid Frustration and, in generally, Women should just STFU about it and stop trying to give “advice” or commentary because it’s just obnoxious and annoying. Far more so than my tasteless joke tweets.

Things are gonna be a little disorganized and focused and scattershot around here in the start, so just expect that. However I DO expect my writing/this blog to Get Better in the Medium-Term future. Just Gimme 3 Months, hahahaha.

I was listening to AVfM Radio “Telling the truth about boys” show and the show closed with a very relevant and powerful remark from Typhon Blue: LISTEN to your anger. When Paul asked her what advice she would give to boys on how to educate and train them for The World Of Women, for which Media and School and Society and even well-meaning Families do not fully prepare them. Listen To Your Anger. Your anger is an alert system telling you that something’s WRONG, and you would be smart to believe it. Use your anger to help you find what’s wrong and then try to solve that problem or protect yourself from it. Don’t ignore it, don’t think it’s a false flag. More likely that not, your anger is your Gut telling you that something IS wrong and unjust and potentially harmful. So don’t get harmed. Protect yourself and know that you are WORTH protecting. Don’t let your Hormones steer you into sacrificing your self-respect, integrity, and safety.

Very often we think of Logic Versus Emotion, as if they are Enemies, and Logic must Conquer Emotion every time (Well, I often leap to that conclusion!) but the bottom line is that both Logic AND Emotion can serve us well when balanced properly. A little Anger can save our lives. A little Infatuation can bond us to a mating partner and help us stay Faithful. But you have to have Logic to know when you’re getting a Raw Deal. Like Barbarossaaaa says, men are pretty good at knowing when they’re getting a deal and when they’re getting screwed. The problem is when men keep going back to get screwed, even when deep down they KNOW they’re getting screwed, because their emotions overcome their logic.

I do think the current “rift” in which people are taking issue with Rocking Mr E’s MRA+ is a little bit overblown and it will blow over. I agree partially with RME that Love Between Men and Women CAN exist and can be a beautiful, positive emotion, but I also agree with Barbarossaaaa and Stardusk that Women are predisposed to be more selfish than men and that the odds are stacked against men and to Bet On Love is a Fool’s Errand and that even if you have it good, things could go very bad overnight and you could be permanently screwed, so Know The Risks, and most of the time, the Risk Isn’t Worth The Reward. But RME is a great guy so let’s not pile-on him, hahahahaha.

I find it amusing and somewhat discouraging that MRA/MGTOW YouTube videos are filled with comments with MRA’s arguing viciously with each other over religion, politics, race, how selfish are women naturally, game, relationships, and people become Internet Tuff Guys even worse than I do. I could understand if they were ridiculing a Feminist Troll, but I think, in general, MRAs should give other MRAs a little more slack & be more civil and laugh away any personal disagreements because, at the end of the day, as MRAs, as Men, we have a LOT more in common than we don’t.

ONE.

Teasers:

Attractive Women have a Moral Obligation to know they are Attractive and to act respectfully with that power, and their Parents have a Moral Obligation to Teach them how to do that.

Leonard Cohen is a tremendous, inspiring, beautiful, transformative, transcendent man.

Black MRAs are Powerful!

PS: I’ve always been wary of Comments, because I hate being criticized! It sounds too much like the Wimminly Advice I described above. When I leave comments, it’s not usually to troll, and usually to give support to the writer. If I disagree with anything they said, then I will say it as nicely as possible. If my disagreement is really significant, then I just won’t say anything at all, as more likely than not, our ideological differences will not be settled by any amount of arguing. If the difference of opinion annoys me enough, I’ll just stop reading the blog.

Basically this me saying that if I get a comment I don’t like, I’ll delete it.  Especially if it’s a Wimminz saying something annoying and pedantic and advicey.

Not that I anticipate a lot of comments. I don’t WANT a lot of comments!

What if anger-as-an-alert-system is just trying to tell us that our Anger Itself is misplaced? That our alert system is Broken, like a Little Boy who doesn’t get his Ice Cream and then gets really really angry for days and weeks and months and years? Well then you can get a whole lotta Xanax and just say “OKAY” passively whenever women withdraw their S3x from you so they can give it to More Alpha men.

 

LATER EDIT: just ignore this, I’m rambling about Caffeine and Leonard Cohen and no MRA stuff, hahahahahaha. I may end up deleting this because Being A Big Leonard Cohen Fan is something that I am easily Real-Life-Identifiable as.

I enjoy writing every day but sometimes the stuff does not really warrant a new post as it is not really on any topic. Or it may be related to the last topic. Or I just don’t want to have a new post. Like today, where I simply wanted to express Thanks and Gratitude to The Cosmos (hehehe) for having a day off and doing absolutely nothing but sleeping, drinking a nice mix of Iced Tea + Diet Mt Dew, a little modification of The Arnold Palmer which I do not have a name for yet. Normally I get up early and drink a lot of coffee all day long. With the sudden blessing of being able to sleep, I have indeed slept, and avoided Coffee for about 30 hours, unheard of. Took a Tylenol to assuage a small headache, but nothing excruciating. Still a sense of being tired and having no energy though. This is nothing new, so usually I Chug An Ocean of Coffee to make myself do what I need to do during the day. But with nothing to do, a First World Privilege if there ever was one, I decided to “detox” from Coffee for a few days while I had that luxury. I did not find a wave of energy in its place, rather, I just slept ALL DAY and went to bed at 6pm. On This, Day 2 of “vacation”, I still felt tired after a full night of sleep. So I “broke down” and got a little caffeine in the form of the “Super Arnold Palmer.”

And this has absolutely nothing to do with Men’s Rights. I was thinking about making a Second Blog for non-Men’s Rights things.

I have always been a big Tom Waits fan and also a big Leonard Cohen Fan. To me, these Singer-Songwriters deserve just as much recognition as “the mainstream” gives Bob Dylan. I don’t hate Bob Dylan, he just comes in at – at most – third place here. Usually I had always ranked Waits above Cohen, but these days I’m finding I’m ranking Cohen above Waits. Going back and listening to all the Cohen albums I’d not given enough attention: “Recent Songs,” “Death of a Ladies Man”, “Various Positions”, “New Skin for the Old Ceremony”, actually, a good 40% of Cohen’s Oeuvre I’m not as familiar with as I should be. All this is probably brought on by Cohen’s new 2012 album “Old Ideas”, which may just be Classic Cohen. The big problem with Bob Dylan is his inconsistency. If every album he made was as good as “Blonde on Blonde” or his first 4 or 5 albums, then he wouldn’t be at such a distant third place for me. Not that I’m crapping on Dylan’s newer albums either. His old-man voice sounds great. I guess Cohen just speaks to me more personally, and even his “inconsistent” albums are growers. Maybe it has to do with him taking at least 4 years between each album.

And I’ve never been a fan of Lyrics for some reason, I just rarely pay attention to lyrics. Maybe it’s my pessimistic view of musicians, and I don’t think they should try to be “poets” too. Pick one or the other because you can’t possibly be good at both. Obviously I don’t feel this way about Cohen. What I really like is how the first verse of lyrics starts off real simple and straightforward and even banal, but then as the song unfolds, he blows that theme wide open and says something spine-chillingly profound, but still related to the foundation he sets in the beginning. The first song on “Old Ideas” def does this.  Maybe even “Hallelujah” or “Suzanne” arguably.

So I’m thankful I “discovered” that new album “Old Ideas”, it got me back on a pretty serious Cohen kick. I’d like him to live forever and keep making new albums, but really we’re fortunate to get this one, it was uncertain whether he would ever make an album of new songs after “Ten New Songs.” And he’s 75 or 76.  Anyway I hope he lives to 120 and makes a dozen more albums. I was also clued into a recent live album called “Songs From The Road” (classic Cohen album title eh?) which was released after the magnificent “Live In London” and features that same Hot Band. (Many of which have been playing with Cohen since the 70s!)  But included some songs which were noticeably missing from LiL, namely, “Avalanche”, “Famous Blue Raincoat”, “Chelsea Hotel”, “The Partisan”, and, possibly my favourite, “Waiting for the Miracle.” I’ve never disliked that song but until I heard this live version I wouldn’t think of putting it on the same level as those previous songs. This Version gives the song the treatment it deserves, really breathes new life into it.

Back in the Day I preferred Old Cohen to New Cohen because it sounded more Organic and I thought he sounded better with the Old Bob Dylan style production of just a man and a guitar. When he incorporated a band, it was often overproduced, to my ears, in a “Cheesy 80s” sense, and was a bit off-putting. Live In London and Songs From The Road present a full-band approach to the material that is much more timeless, giving me a new appreciation for the stuff that may have “suffered” with a “dated” production on the studio versions. Of course now I can go back & listen to those albums and they sound fine. But it’s also amazing how a guy with a reputation for being an “intimate singer-sognwriter” can put on such a great live show with band.

And now I’m reminded of the semi-recent “Isle of Wight” live album which was pulled out of the vaults, and that was Solid too. That was no more recent than about 1974 (checked: 1970), close to his “Live Songs”, his first official Live Album, early 70s. Those sounded great too. I guess the man can do absolutely no wrong in my opinion.

Heh. So my “underrated” Cohen Songs Of The Moment Are:

“Waiting For The Miracle” (live 2010ish)

“Tennessee Waltz” (included on 2004ish album “Dear Heather”, but a live track recorded in 1990s I THINK)

“Sing Another Song, Boys” (included on Songs Of Love And Hate but clearly a Live recording from early 70s, proving, as on “Live Cohen”, he still put on a Sick Show back then)

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